when we seek answers, we look back on the question to see how the question even came about.
then, we contemplate (maybe, that is), "what would happen "If...?"
but as i've stated before it's mostly a learned process. it now becomes the choice of: " what is needed to make my decision easier? how would the question even look like if I had answered it this way instead?"
but the question should really be, "there are no questions in my life. it's the choice that I need to make in order to get through this...
whatever decision I do decide to take on, the choice was mine to take!"